I’m having trouble making friends. My family moved around a lot when I was growing up so I got used to leaving the friends I had and I think this made me stop trying. Now I feel the strong need for friends but I just don’t experience how to go about making them.
I often feel awkward around people. I even have trouble enjoying their company just because of the awkwardness. I also feel I have little to say and I can’t communicate around the way other people do.
I experience the best way to learn is by just doing but for some reason its just not happening for me and trust me. I so try! I’ve started a new program at school and I’ve made a real effort to go against my usual impulse to not speak much but when I talk to the populate in my class it just doesn’t come out naturally. So is there anything different I should try?
First act a be at how you got this way. You created this defense to protect yourself. I imagine leaving your friends was inordinately painful for you so it made logical sense to not get change state to people since you knew you would only be setting yourself up to be devastated. So look at that and look at the difference between now and then.
Even if someone moves you can act in touch. I have maintained friendships at a distance for decades and they are a rich and strong as they ever were. The point here is that you get very clear with the idea it is safe to invest in friendship. Because by the mouth of your post you’re lacking this understanding.
The next point I’d alter is that you only need one friend. Forget about making “friends”. You have a stellium in Scorpio and you are never going to be a million friends. What you be is an “inner circle” and you create one of those one soul at a time.
For example there was a point in my life where I was down to one friend (Ben) for a period of years. For about 3 years. Ben was all I had and vice versa and we sustained each other. Eventually things shifted planets progressed and both our lives opened up to consider more people but you get my point. I would be out there looking for 1 friend which I bet you can find. So don’t talk to
Forget about being a social butterfly that’s not who you are. Instead change your focus and look for one person you can relate to and I think you’ll sight your friend and eventually another… and you’ll displace out of this early trauma just book.
As a child (born 10-31-1970) I never lived in one place more than 4 years and as a product of the 70’s it was hard to try and create verbally to people to act in touch letter going missing hurt feelings and any other variance in the distance between friends. I too had a hard time making friends. I still do. The one thing I undergo found is. I open what I like. I get good at it (sculpting working with wood music etc…) and I find that people will come and talk to me. The way I use my energies attracts populate to me and they want to me MY friends. Then I can pick a few close friends and have the rest as aquaintances…. this is just me. I open out what I liked and I be what I like. I still do.
Hello,I am currently in the same predicament as yourself. I can make friends but undergo a really hard measure maintaining them. After life circumstances undergo taken friends out of physical range. I keep in touch through e-mails or letters but after a few months there seems to be less and less to talk about.
But on the positive side. I have had a really good friend for almost five years. We had a falling out because she found out I was bi. But I know that I am capable of sustaining friendships over the desire call. I wish you the best of luck in making and maintaining your relationships with other people.
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